Hum rishton ki duniya mein rehtein hai

When we win an argument we lose a relationship. So better not argue, at least with the one who mean a lot to you. There is always a difference of perception, thinking, between two individuals. And especially when there is a generation gap and imagine, how wider this gap would it be if it involves a communication gap.

And between these gaps there is a vacuum, and this vacuum is because of lack of understanding and lack of egoless love. People care for each other a lot and why not, they related by blood, but, the problem is this BUT which always comes between relationships. Why can’t they agree to one point of view, why there is a clash, unsaid, unspoken but it is. This is something someone will never be able to resolve, but it hurts, when people are part of your aura. But at every end, there is a hope, some day, at some point the poles apart old and new generation will meet.

NG loves freedom, independence is their motto, they listen to OG, respect their view but do what they feel like, and OG is so caring but so insecure about NG, they are so eager to help, to mentor and guide, they however forget that whenever you try to clasp sand tightly in your hands, the more quickly it flows off. And these conversations are just so debatable, that there is no end to who is right and who is wrong, and I feel this is the biggest problem is that no one is wrong, but everyone wants to prove that the opposite person is wrong when they are not, it’s just you are right on your stand.

Hum rishton ki duniya mein rehtein hai,

Dillo ki doori ka gum sehtein hai,

Nasamjhi ke dal dal mein hai jaa fase,

Jo khudko samajhdaar kehtein hai.