Saturday, March 6, 2010

Pain



Be positive in each and every aspect of life. Such an easy line to say isn’t it. But what happens when you are tested and trialed with each passing moment. You are nailed again and again, deeper with each new trial, for your patience and let that salty water flow and burn those wounds, hurting for you being so helpless, so not worthy. How can one imagine of being positive at that moment?
You are bound to lose the positivity torch in that windy darkness and then you feel like gathering all your courage and speak up, “Enough is enough, why am I bearing all this, stop it, and stop behaving with me like this.” And the end what answer do you get in return, “ok I’m the bad one, each mistake is mine only.” Seriously, it is the easiest way of not accepting your mistake and just be out of the conversation without resolving the problem.

Note:
I feel this is my first core negative post, but I have learned this from my friend (rinki pinks its u) that even negativity is part of your life it's an expression so better express it.
The writeup was written when i was feeling very low and at that moment such thoughts came to my mind.
But after taking it out over a paper, i really felt better and very optimistic.....

15 comments:

Anonymous said...

Yes very true when sme 1 is tested and nailed than 1 can take his or her thoughts which looks good on saying can not have influence as per situation..Very well expressed thought.

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Rashmi Jain said...

@ varun
Thankssss a lott for appreciating, glad u liked it :)

priyanka said...

hmmmm..chalo aapne mujhse kuch toh seekha..hahaha..any ways..realy yaar..u write superb...i pray for u tht life me aisa koi bhi expression tu apne blog pe fir kabhi post na kare..!! i wish ur blog may shine wid all the bright colors of life,posts which r full of love, hpyness n crea tivity....
n one more thing tht u will hurt only in one condition..if u will give this chance to some one..hmmm always remember this..
luv u ...take care..n keep goin..waitin for ur next post...

Rashmi Jain said...

yes dear, i'll remember that but you know what when you are in war with your loved ones you are to bound to get weak, may be i'm wrong, but this goes for me....
N you get weak because you don't want them to feel the same pain which you are going through...
Nyways, aapse to bhot kuch seekha n bhot kuch seekhna baaki hai :)
Thanks 4 d comment dear n hopefully i never write anything like this :)
Luv u 2.....

Ankit B. Rathod said...

well.... ur friend was correct.... negativity, too, is a part n parcel of life... all of us go thru such ups n downs in life... i've been thru all dis... n even i had almost similar thoughts...

it takes a brave heart to post a negative writeup... n kudos to u for dis post.... i hope u see days full of positivity in future !

Rashmi Jain said...

@ Ankit
Thanks 4 appreciating and your wishes...
Even i want the same i.e. positivity in not only mine but each of urs as well.....
Thanks 4 d comment once again :)

सखी said...

I want to see that writer within you!!! Write something which will temptate me to be the first commenter on your blog.
I'm waiting.......!!!

Rashmi Jain said...

@ Sakhi
thanks 4 d comment, wl surely try to do so :)

Jeet said...

hi... though i dont know you.. ur writeup made me feel that i know you very well...

This is one of the superb post and very well expressed too...

Hope to see more of such posts.. not negativity only positivity... so that it may inspire others to be positive in the toughest situation also...

Good keep it up... :)

Rashmi Jain said...

@ Jeet
Thank you for appreciating and for joining me.
I'll surely try and keep up to your expectations and write on more of positive thoughts...
Keep visiting :)

Jeet said...

ya i'll keep visiting ur blog... expect the same from u...

Rashmi Jain said...

@ jeet
Thanks n will surely reciprocate in same way.....

Vijay said...

Well written.....Like the post and blog too,,

Rashmi Jain said...

@ Vijay
Thanks a lott for the comment.
Keep visiting :)